If you don’t know the story, check it out here, but basically a guy pissed on me in a nightclub bathroom then all his friends beat the shit out of me when I retaliated. After two years I decided I’d message him and tell him I didn’t appreciate the beating.
EDIT: He messaged back and wanted to talk on the phone. I said “sure!” We talked for about 5 minutes. He apologized profusely, said he was going through a lot of stuff back then (like I presupposed) and that he has since gotten counselling. I told him I didn’t hold any grudges and that I can be a dick when I’m drunk too. We’re getting drinks next time I’m in NYC. And all was well in the world.